We can never change the people we love but only God’s love can.
We can influence and guide them to a certain extent but true transformation can only be led by the Holy Spirit, manifesting from the inside-out.
So greatly-beloved ones, if you are ready to take on any intimate relationships, remember that there’s no ready-made man/woman as long as we are still in this world..perfection comes by perception through the eyes of God’s Grace, seeing them as who they already are in Christ and that’s Faith - believing before you can see. Their actions may not always resonate with their Christ-identity or much less your expectations but there’s always the unlimited supply of God’s Grace which is always sufficient for every season. And please rest assured, that the Lord is constantly renewing our minds to transform us from glory to glory.